A different kind of couples counseling
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Relationships can be such an amazing source of joy, support and strength, yet at times they can also be one of the most challenging things in our lives. It’s natural to have complications and hard moments in any relationship. We are human, we all have flaws and imperfections, we all bring old wounds into relationships with us. When there is great love between you and your partner, there is a greater opening between you and a greater vulnerability, which can also lead to greater potential for hurting each other.
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I can help facilitate what is required for you and your partner to move through your challenges together, to separate out your individual wounds and sensitivities that can get touched by each other, and to find where communication gets lost and the reasons for defensiveness, resentment, disappointment, anger, and disconnection between you. Ultimately at the core of everything, you and your partner love each other and want to find your way to a deeper loving connection, with more understanding and compassion for each other in all ways, as well as with greater ease through the challenging moments.
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If you are in a loving relationship and are feeling the need for outside assistance to help you work through some of the challenges that get in the way, I offer couples sessions that are uniquely formed using any combination of healing modalities to suit you and your partner’s needs.
New Ways to Bond and Heal Together
FAQs
Some of the most common elements in couples work that I facilitate include:
Taking specific moments that didn’t go well and slowing those moments down in order to identify the larger dynamics at work that were getting in the way.
Finding ways to truly see each other and each other’s individual struggles, being able to truly listen and hear what each other is saying so you can both understand and bring compassion to each other.
Identifying where each of you is individually sensitive or wounded and being able to bring a sense of protection and safety to those places both from within yourself and from your partner.
Finding connection and ways to bridge the gaps where things get lost in translation when you have different ways of communicating.
Identifying what each of you is truly needing, both for yourselves and from the relationship, then helping you to communicate them to each other. When those needs are in conflict, working through how to get them all met in a balanced way that feels good to both of you.
Some of the different elements in couples work that I facilitate include:
Guided meditation journeys together as a couple as a way of finding connection to traveling together along the spiritual plain.
Energy field exercises and movements to discover where each other’s energy fields are in relation to each other and how they interact, perhaps without you even realizing the unseen dynamics at play between you.
Exploring past life connections you may have as a way of discovering and healing any old trauma that could be still present between you. Often moments of pivotal importance from a past life are the moments that echo throughout time, whether it be a moment of great joy or great sorrow, these moments could be playing out in ways that don’t make sense or are detrimental to your relationship in the present.
Often through mediumship, discovering if there are any old ancestry lines and belief systems in place that could be causing hardship between you. Whether it is an entire line of ancestors or one individual spirit, it can be helpful to clear and cut ties to anything not serving the greatest good for your relationship, while still maintaining connection to family in a loving and supportive way.
I work inclusively with couples of all gender identities and sexual orientations
Additional Offerings
MArriage Preparation & Officiating
Two people coming together to profess their love and desire for deep commitment to each other is a beautiful thing. I believe there can be a true sacredness to the entire process of events leading up to a wedding as well as the ceremony itself.
There are many things that can be explored together before the day of the wedding, which can include but are not limited to:
Gaining clarity and depth of intention for why you are making the choice to get married.
Finding ways of staying centered in your love for each other through all the decisions to be made and potential challenges to be faced leading up the wedding.
Unveiling and expressing any fears, doubts, and anxieties that you may be feeling in making this sacred commitment, and then helping you to move through any of those feelings that could be getting in your way of enjoying the process, planning, and event itself.
Dealing with any challenges posed by family or friends around the planning of the wedding.
Working together with you on creating your own unique ceremony of sacred marriage, and then officiating the ceremony on the day of your wedding.
Group Sessions
Another service I provide is group facilitation and Akashic Record reading. I have found this works best with a group of people who have already established a connection of some sort. The intention of a group session is therefore to deepen the existing bonds between you and the other members of your group, to strengthen the reason you have all come together in the first place, and to gain a clear direction for the future of your group. Whether you are part of a group going into business together, a fun activity group, a support group, or simply a collection of close friends, I can facilitate a different way of connecting with each other with clear intention and mindfulness that can lead to opening, and expansiveness, and new possibilities for your group.
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